9 Happiness Tips for Introverts


Some studies suggest that extroverts are happier than introverts. However, if you’re an introvert, you can’t just turn yourself into an extrovert. But that doesn’t mean you’re doomed to a life of sadness and misery, either! 


There are several things introverts can do to increase their happiness and life satisfaction. Most of them are quite easy, too!



Consider these ideas:


1. Accept your introverted self. If you’re introverted, you’re introverted. That can be challenging in some ways and a blessing in others. You can’t change your basic nature, so you may as well embrace it. Remember that you have many advantages over extroverts.


2. Focus on the quality of your relationships, rather than the quantity. Introverts don’t dislike people, but they do dislike shallow conversations and relationships. As an introvert, your socialisation needs to be meaningful. You don’t need 30 friends. You need a couple of good friends.


3. Take time for yourself. Introverts thrive on alone time, so give yourself plenty of it. Create a lifestyle that matches your need to spend time alone.


4. Acknowledge your strengths. You’ll be happier if you remember that being an introvert is great in many ways. Look at yourself and the extroverts you know. What can you do that they can’t? What are you naturally good at that they aren’t? Your insight may well surprise you.


5. Pretend to be an extrovert. Now this isn’t for all introverts but studies have shown that some introverts experience positive feelings after pretending to be extroverted in social gatherings. The next time you’re on a zoom call, pretend you’re an actor and act extroverted. You might discover that you like gatherings more than you thought!


6. Choose a suitable career. A sales career might not be the best choice for an introverted person. You’ll be happier if you choose a career path that doesn’t require constant communication with others.


7. Avoid over-scheduling. An extrovert might thrive with a daily schedule that includes a full day of work, meeting friends for dinner, and then taking a night class. Introverts tend to need more downtime to recharge their batteries. A simple life tends to work the best and can be very satisfying to an introvert.


8. Take a day off when you need it. These are challenging times and the usual ways of enjoying a day off such as going to the seaside or spending a day at the spa are off limits, but you can still take a day off for yourself when you need it and do something just for you. The alternative is overstressing yourself or making yourself miserable. If it’s not too detrimental, take a day off once in a while, your introverted self will thank you for it.


9. Find activities you enjoy that you can do by yourself. Avoid falling into the trap of just watching TV each night. Look for things you can do that you enjoy that also help you to grow. Take up an instrument, learn to play chess, create some art work, read, or write. What really interests you? What would you really like to do that’s just for you?


Where you lie on the extroversion-introversion scale is believed to be quite consistent. It’s a case of “you are what you are”.


Extroverts might have it a little easier, but there are many advantages to being introverted. Decide today to embrace your introverted self and do the things you love.



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